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2010年12月15日星期三

Between men and women is important to enjoy each other

Someone says, the most important is not between the men and women love, but enjoy each other.
Also remember oneself once say to a girl, this present life you can meet many love you of person, but maybe you will never meet a more than I do appreciate your people.

Appreciation is a higher level of love. Most of the love, is for the purpose of possession. Appreciate, already does not care whether can occupy. Men and women come to admire each state, that kind of love is to the perfection of beauty, I couldn't bear to corrupt it. So somebody said, don't talk to your favorite people get married, say is entered this state after a hazy feeling, not entirely in fever remain unspilled. But men and women once in appreciation of state, if even further approached, combined, often is to produce the greatest love cheerful.
Most men and women, also in two feelings mutually yue situations, but extortionary say combined into the appreciation of state, lest mostly just self-deception just. A woman in an article wrote: once and quasi boyfriends to drink coffee, the checkout she say: let me to pay. Male connect a voice said, "no no", then is a man should pay the truth. This woman then wrote: I really want to tell him I don't think man pay to have poise, while woman payment is no self-respect. I really want to tell him, sometimes payment is also a kind of fun and free and easy. However I said nothing, I know, he appreciates not a happy and free and easy.

Appreciation is a far from earthly mindedness eye, don't care whether someone identity or resonance. Appreciate the viewer is have emotional appeal of person, he can from appear to others vapid words that gives a kind of behavior in chewing something called "taste". When a girl approached counter for their breakfast bill, he never think rob to pay to show men of poise, but sit quietly, from girl lightsome pace, appreciate girl innermost feelings that one happy, He will be filled with joy of listening to his girlfriend in the telephone that word, or trick out all sorts of strange voice, feelings that will carry your among a beautiful CARES, He like appreciation of masterpieces calligraphy and painting as appreciate girlfriend's doodles, savour to a masters in the calligraphy and painting not a warmth and a neatly-pressed. As for the girlfriend's doodles as a company documents plug into the drawer of man, we do not need to go - the kind that men also demanding they just don't appreciate.Christian louboutin Black

A woman can grow to a beautiful enough, a man can poor to not one girl to marry him, but you can't never appreciated, or never heard others -- because, with a woman said, "as long as you can appreciate this half the world's partner, you would unreservedly embrace an entire world."

2010年12月8日星期三

Instant warm

Initially elder sister and brother-in-law love, mother strongly disagreed, said he had no culture also just, even a decent craft also have no, all day to follow a person out building a house, dearth. Then I read in the provincial capital city university, seen busy mothers, as one wish elder sister can marry a city. I help my sister to talk, said builder nor anyone could, at least should have a good body, in rural areas, and have a place, and more than a check of energy to go out to earn extra money, is great. Mother didn't nobody, along while just spit 1: what in city construction, looks, but is a migrant workers just.

Instant warm a summary, let mother family silent for a long time, even sister oneself also therefore feel ashamed, seemed to once marry brother-in-law, will follow into social bottom, turn hang forever. The very long period of time, the family no longer discuss the marriage. Later, brother-in-law bought big pack of things, riding a motorcycle rushes to our house. In order to etiquette, parents force him to stay at home for dinner. I thought he would impassioned delivers a speech, but until dinner ate a half, he didn't pull to a positive to go up. Finally, the family looked at each other, know how close this meal, at this moment, the brother-in-law will whole cup of wine, drink, blushing said: dad, niang, I guarantee, no matter how much of this life I eat bitterness, will not let little by little pond grievance.

Is this word, and let my sister has made up his mind, marry brother-in-law. And parents also sighed, ShanShen put a line.

Sister married soon had a baby. That year, brother-in-law didn't go out to work, single-minded keep in the home, the ground when they're not looking for some scattered work. Wait for the child grow to more than a year, can save more energy, brother-in-law has followed outside the labor contractor to the provincial capital to dry construction. Although with the town, I and brother-in-law had never met. I tried to ask his own JianZhuDui, but they are like grass and live by the nomads of the region, where a medium-bodied grasses, where is the place, until a habitat of building ground, air city poured in, and they these sweat bleeding man, by the boss with some money sent away.

I read my book, earth for after graduation can stay in this city and trying, let oneself to lower the ideal dian height. Such efforts, and finally let me at two years successful remained in the city, become a celebrity envied the newspaper reporters.

Listen to my sister said, brother-in-law know I'm a reporter, excitement, night didn't sleep well, on the day after, I find newspaper, I want heel side. It's a pity that he only know my childhood name, I graduated school he can recall, finally guard when he is a liar, take it away. Don't know brother-in-law have complained from what, but he didn't get me, nor in front mention my workmates this can for their particularly aggrieed reporter.
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I am busy let his life a bit better, too busy to pay attention to brother-in-law life. Even once, their site from our newspaper several hundred meters far place, but I could not go to see him once. Just accidental opportunity from the mother and disclosed that there, his feet were from the cement bag bashed, won't be in hospital dermatological department, countryman connect home to rest. And because dragged not only at home to treatment, the simple bandage changeover, nearly infection...

Listening to these time, I felt like listening to other people's story, in the newspapers, often have something about migrant accident, I used to it. But he also brother-in-law, when it's fate gave his all, have long been accustomed to it, because, when I phoned his condolences, he just hanhou smile and said, nothing to do this, stuttering is often the case. Many times, he really will these as the life of normal. We met occasionally, he spoke up foremen unreasonable salary of embezzle part, workmates a high fever climb scaffold, supermarket was waiter thief similar staring at... All these, he as talking as GuChangLiDuan couse, tone.

This year, the elder sister's daughter is 4 years old, haven't seen tall buildings. I brought her to the city, pointing to a nearby play is being built in building tell her, this is tall buildings. Little guys suddenly stopped and looked at it, upward comings and goings workers, ask a way: "younger sister, that top have father?"

I raised my head, watching on scaffolding under the scorching sun windward migrant workers, they are working for a ground of building nervous working, but they from beginning to end have no time like building on the advertising banners, have "propagate language reigns as the heroic". Even, they even look down at the ground pedestrians have time.

When niece and shake my arm, ask, dad on it? I held her up, say: "rain how can anyone know dad will work on?" She listened, immediateness happy, clapping way: "mom said dad is lid building hero? Young aunt, I can shout also 1 dad?" I YiZheng, then kissed her little cheeks, gentle voice said: "sure, even though you can't see dad, but dad can hear xiao yu call......"
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This autumn afternoon, I hugged xiaoyu, standing in one place machine plangent building before, listen to her again and again head shout "father". It seems that I see, high on scaffolding, those busy man rolled over on his side, gazing at us... That picture frame, like in a flash movie a warm lens, carved into my memory. Christian Louboutin Boots

2010年12月7日星期二

Thanks to the challenge of life

Appreciate those who hurt you, because he honed your determination!
Thank you stumble, because he enhanced your legs!
Thanks to those who have deceived you, because he enhanced your wisdom!
Thank despise you, because he awaked your self-esteem!
Thanks to those who have abandoned you, for he taught you how to be independent.

In the journey of life, the worst situation is often not poverty, not bad luck, but the spirit and mood in a state of exhaustion of ignorance without sleep: all you touched cannot again touched you, appealing to a you all can't attract you, even anger you all can't provoke you. At this time, people need to find another slice of scenery.

[1], "to change our life, the first step is to change our attitude. As long as mentality is correct, our world would the bright."

Actually between itself and no big difference, the real difference is a state of mind, "either you go to rein in life, either life drive you. Your heart modal decide who is mounts, who is jockey." In the face of psychological lows, some people to reality compromise, gave up his ideal and pursuit; Some people don't eat dirt, they all look at my life, analyze your own mistakes, courage to face the dilemma, thus, continue to pursue their dreams.

We can't control what had happened to her, but we can control our attitude, We can not change others, but we can change ourselves, We can not change what has happened, but we can adjust our attitude.

Nothing is difficult, have sincere speci road connect, the right mindset set can make your life more comfortable calm. Of course, the mindset is depend on your own adjustment, if you like, you can give yourself a right mindset.

Attitude is man's true master. Changing the psychology, is to change your life. What kind of attitude, can have what kind of life. Want to change our life, the first step is to change our attitude. As long as the mentality is correct, our world will be bright.

[2], "people alive is to solve difficult. This is the meaning of life, also be the life content. Escape is not the means that ZhiNanErShang is often the best way to solve problems.

Of the road of life is not bon voyage, we can meet in prosperity, also can meet adversity. In fact, in all successful road of torment you, inspires you hide behind upwards of motives. In other words, to success, all must understand knows how to put others of torturing yourself into a let yourself overcome setbacks hone, such hone let not successful people grow, strong. So, when you are bad luck, strong and cowardice is success or failure of watershed. A life can overcome adversity, create wonders, depending on whether you endowed it a kind of the power of faith. A belief in the power of life can be driven by creating world miracle.

In the face of difficulties, if you can in all give up when more stick to a second, then, the final victory will belong to you. A firm belief is to obtain success of power. A lot of time, success is in the last minute hobbled arrival. Therefore, to do anything, we all should not give up, even on the road again no difficult, also want to persevere, such ability won't in your own life to leave too much regret.

The splendid life is in frustrations create, setback is a person's gold stone, many setbacks often is a good start. You just follow their instincts, constantly transcend self development BanMaSuo of mind, you won't find themselves in the life the sun yi yi sh inesth rough!

[3], "to win, just must not kiasu. Not afraid lose, the results would not necessarily win. But kiasu, result then must be lost."

The way of life, our everybody inevitably face to various risks and challenge, result have success, also have failed. However, the life lies not in a moment's gain victory, but is who is the final winner. Did not go to the end of life, we who also cannot say we really are failed or successful. So we were in any stage of the life cannot be discouraged, are to be full of hope!

Don't give up your pain and because of choice. The so-called successful personage, is nothing but more than others pay, more experienced hardships people just. Don't give up with pain you choose, you can succeed.

Phoenix nie feather into butterflies, precisely because experienced intense pain, and then have astonishing beautiful. A person's success is not accidental, he was stepping on countless failures and pain came, others only see him today's brilliance and glory. Only he knew, in his path to success pedestrians, have been thorns pierced broken stains blood.
[4] "life goal determine easily realize difficult, but if you don't go to action, then even realize may also won't have."

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, So far, no BuJiKuiBu, Not accumulate small flow, without into jianghai. Everything must want to do big, small eyes, starts from the most basic things start to do. If a person have a heart of ideals, but not willing to step by step to strive, that he will never have a dream come true one day.

Have a story to tell us the importance of action, there was a poor monk and a rich monk lived in a remote place, one day, poor monks of the monk said: "I think south to, you see how?" Rich monk said what makes you go? Poor monk said: "a water bottle, a FanBo is enough." Rich monk said: "I just want to rent boats for many years, now south along the Yangtze river, had never done? What makes you walk?" The next year, poor monks from the south China sea to return, the south China sea told rich monk, rich monk deeply ashamed. Goals determine easily realize difficult, but if not to act. So even realize may also won't have. No action people just dreaming, so ctivity, dare to take action to the first step, your chances of success will improve, and light can do and that you will never realize the plan of possible.

[5], "life is there have been many such miracles, seemingly than ascend heaven to return difficult thing, sometimes easy can do, among them difference lies in the extraordinary faith."

Many years ago, there was a poor goatherd took two young sons to flock to maintain life for others. One day they make the sheep came to a hill, at this moment, a group of geese chirping from their flight overhead, and soon disappeared in the distance. The shepherd's youngest son asked his father, "daddy, daddy, geese where should fly?" "They're going to a warmer place, home there, live in the cold winter." Shepherd said. His eldest son blink eyes envy must say: "if we can also like geese that fly good, that I will fly than geese even higher, go to heaven, saw mom is in there." Last son said to his father, "do a flying geese much good, so don't sheep, can fly to where you want to go."

The shepherd was silent for a moment, then the two sons said: "as long as you want, you also can fly." Two sons tried, and not fly. Their eyes stared at suspiciously father. Shepherd said, let me fly to you see, so he flew two, also didn't fly. Shepherd said firmly: "I is because older just could not fly, you still small, as long as the constant efforts, we will be able to fly up and go where you want to go." Sons firmly remember father's words, and always constant efforts, wait until they grow up really fly up, they invented the plane, they is America's the Wright brothers.

This made me believe: a man's heart if contains a belief, and unremitting ground for the efforts of, so, he must be a successful man.

[6], "even if encountered the world biggest unfortunate, able to solve all difficulties is the premise of - alive. Only life, there is hope. No matter how pain, how sad, want to be able to be hard to live and everything will be all right.

If life is a book and that regret is a string ellipsis, gaps in, containing profound philosophical! Life gives us every man is a one-way ticket, we live can have my own noble and meanness, will enjoy life's joys and worries.

Life is a gift we particular gift of despair, even if the swamp, also should hold life even a little worthy of praise bright color, thus encouraging yourself hang on, don't fall. As long as there is a gleam of hope, we'll live strong, because there is hope alive.

To live is hope, the living there is hope. In fact, there is no hopeless situation, only the man who falls into despair.

Tell oneself still have hope, because they're still alive. As long as there is life, there is hope and dream realized chance...

[7], "truly successful life lies not in the size of the achievement, but in whether or not you hard to realize self-evaluation, shout out your own voice, goes out of their own way."

The mediocre man always has a kind of schadenfreude psychological, because the successful people are always give them strong stimulation. They always hope winners can choke, as well as they became mediocrity. Life is like a play, even today you are coveted leading role, tomorrow you may be a walk-on. It may be said is: "reemergence will sometimes, manslaughter landing withheldest know." The wise in heart should always life's ups and downs, this is a kind of great wisdom, stage below can ease tenacity, insignificant big-hearted.

But the wise in their own lives will set a standard, it is not a parrot standard, but you really want standards. As long as we think meaning, we must persevere. Without hurting others and social situations, when you want to be a man, do you want to do, say what you have to say... And, this is our everybody the essence of success.

[8], "bow is a kind of ability, it is not humbled themselves, nor weakness, it is awake in evolution. Sometimes, a little duck, or our life will be more fascinating."

People, the heart to good, sincere affection, shiki shall be established.

People, satisfiedly not form, the disappointment must be watched volunteers.

Man, no pride is impossible to have ChiRuGan, no ChiRuGan there can be no self-respect.

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Someone asked Socrates: "you be the most knowledgeable person, then you say heaven and earth between what is the height of?" Socrates hestitation said: "three feet!" The man looked askance: "we all five feet tall, between earth and heaven, that is not only three feet pierced them ether?" Socrates say with smile: "so, always highly over three feet of person, long standing between the heaven and earth, should be understood bow." Actually, our life might it not so. Avowed unsuccessful people, often see others exellence. The cynics, often see the wonderful world, Only dare to bow and constantly deny himself, only then can unceasingly absorb lessons, will be for the success of others and rejoice, for his own considerate and complacent, will in the face of a setback duties.

[9], "a lot of times, she is not happy, not because happy conditions are not ready, but because live enough simple,"

What is happiness?

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Actually, happiness is a very simple things, happiness is in everyone's side, but not everyone know it. "Only simple, can be happy." Don't HuaWu beautiful mansion, do not crave covets epicurean delicacies, no ambitions, don't play the noble photograph and live a life of simplicity and neat, can feel the joy of living, a kind of external wealth may not be as good as man, but the heart full rich life, this is the natural life. Would have r-k working fun, also have to share with family of warmth, free activities tianlun of leisure, still use to enjoy? "The world flavour is weak, not her but idle self-invited."

"The simple life" is not for you to give everything. Execute it, must from your reality. Simple life is not from Kennedy straw. You can drive a expensive cars, but can still make life simplified. A basic concept is that you want to improve your quality of life only, the key is to be honest with yourself, think about the life of what is really important.

[10], "grateful, is to harvest are the source of true happiness. Grateful, you will find oneself originally everything around is so beautiful."

Deciduous hovering in the air with a song of Thanksgiving and compose the music, is that tree to the earth of gratitude, White clouds in the blue sky floating, drawing the plenties gratitude picture, it is baiyun of blue sky of gratitude.

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A person, if often cherish a thankful heart, then he would feel what is happiness, and the time to taste the taste of happiness, will cherish everything in life, you would feel life is very beautiful.

Grateful is to acquire a source of happiness, in the life, if we everybody does not forget gratitude, relationships between people becomes more harmonious and more approachable. We oneself will also because this Thanksgiving psychological existence and become more healthy and happy!

The world only thing worse than being tortured, that is never being tortured. Because, when a person intermittently tortured, his potential will be inspired came out, and he can grow stronger yong, forcing yourself to breakthrough present situation...

2010年12月6日星期一

BingHuangMaLuan graduation mood

Panic from before graduation last semester began it. Opened to learn, we rarely then like before Chinese New Year, is home without asking added a new dress, or whole hair, but a few words to ask each other papers done not have umems, similarly, work and how ready to love on earth where, tone, and in the face of sorrow and deeply worried, as bright clear. So to finally meet you every time, before ask, will automatically send their circumstances home truths.

But such opportunity has rarely, everyone suddenly like online on the QQ, hidden the body, again not find it. The school has become a deserted station 'letting, only need to deal with some before graduation procedure will everyone be brief sometime. Even on duty in the classmate o ring, because cerebrovascular rupture, are at stake, our group of MeiXinMeiFei person, still find such that reason, for oneself cannot go visit bitching. Then the school to graduate camera, in the crowd, meet the physical and mental anxiety o pieces, suddenly my tears hua hua out. O ring said: "girl, cry? Should laugh just rightness, poor little I will not see you anymore." I prone in her thin shoulders, thinking of her sister, give us the same as the love, but we are only a message or cruelly phone will in bed with death of her elaborate scramble. Isn't it, graduation and work, really more important than a friendship, let us instantly as a fretted rage, little beast rend were roaring toward desired target desperately galloped away?

But then I thought, has not so rationally analysis, I for almost every coming opportunity, bad ruthlessly up a challenge. I will jinan greatly small recruitment drove all over, and the gaudy resume, leaflets to those with the same sends out the power of ShengShaYuDuo hiring hands. Every send a, I'll sleep at night when a fantasy. Then my classmates and I seem to have developed iamginition disease, each to seen an unit, would habitually take some time to do a pipe dream. The dream of course without exception, is their own success after applying for good with gorgeous, thinking about finally get a despised his elated, before finally can no longer do the poor to need daily scheming students, finally can give the parents some comfort, and was able to live in the city like want life... But we wake up after the font and discomfort, will not be missing the slightest. I still want to oneself sell a the best price, running around, eat white holes.

I remember cast a dozen field recruitment, cast out hundreds of resumes, in those a face of casual hiring, boasting before the hype, even to the last even myself all doubts this so excellent graduates whether or not I, I also learned to meet the unquote tactics, own resume see two eyes of hiring a face sincerely up again after use, touted to emails and phone calls, "the man" heavy bombardment until somebody else say, I'm sorry, but you really good, but we have gathered to the right person. Also have cold, hear me to make a phone call past ask, he said, and bring the description hither we don't girl, why still so talk? Or, listen to me quote his background, then, the famous universities directly refuse graduates we here no more. Then I wanted to go back in time, let me go again to take a NiuQi to coax a famous university and will be the pride of these articles.

Unfortunately, again how frustrated and depressed, still should be hard on scalp, the nerve, driving a duck shelves. And the opposite of love, then in such hectic days started to light up the lamp. Work after just one year's boyfriend, every two days will phoned to I cross-examine, exactly is go with him, or listen to his parents' advice, city? You ask too impatient.actually, I will worthier towards him roar: "why you don't have much money, can I get past well-fed glut of life?! Why do you have no ability, can for me arrange a snug qingxian work?! Why I always want to consider other people's wishes, rather than to me where you want to go?! Why I burned out, still cannot get a satisfied result?!" Often roar to finally, he and I forgot, after all we because what noisy, And what will be the tender former shy girl become such a road-hog unreasonable, grumpy woman?

Yes, graduating this time, we seem to have been spent in endless disputes. Parents don't want to let me go too far, while in the city, my boyfriend and couldn't find a proper job. Love and work, in graduation balance, swing shaking, who with whom would not give up so easily.

All kinds of test also at this time will I molestation immensely. Civil servants, XuanDiaoSheng, certificate, and similarly, they are like spurts of hurricane swept up, I hold, and fell fall down. I almost become a poor ant, don't know where the river will I rushed to helplessly drift, always remember to meet in the campus tutor, all want to go around, or try to take his eyes from his sharp torture delocalized roots. Under I like at one's deceased father grind as, peri-odically examine one sidedness yourself: exactly, why should I this continuously exam go? Exactly, the surface of the scenery and real life, which is more important?

Until my departure to Beijing to take an examination, I just use a friend of message, trying to convince himself. She said that, this time for important is not the result, but you can finally for their reading career drew a satisfactory full stop. From kindergarten to doctor, every war you all had, in the undergraduate course graduate than me, track regard it as a perfect circle. I leaned on window, listen to the train KuangDang KuangDang land sped onward, and finally, on this sentence smiled.

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I know this laugh in mixed the bitterness. When I alone carried a baggage, spent ten minutes before from across a bridge sections on the broad road; not When I was in north gate guard vigilance ground by shadow; truly when interrogating When I from north shadow those well-dressed handsome boys and pretty girls to go to pass a rented the basement; When I think I learned very good major, in a couple of examination papers before, I still crumbled, can't withstand the gloomy and lost heart deposition in Beijing, some strange street, slowly ducks turned, ren tears overflow.


I met online a friend, who have never striven again hair message, let me into Beijing must remember to see her. She wants from my body, a little corroborated text that live nonchalance freely me. For this meeting, I have racked thought, but when I exam is over the last game, open the cellular phone, but I only give sent her word. I said, goodbye, my friend. She never know, that moment, the skin coarse, hair tumbled I is how wretched. The text free and easy unruly I am rather then shall never see, also do not have such an unkempt appearance meet, and besides, I imagined that this is not her weak downy woman, only is a graduation, then let this implicit in text behind indifferent woman reveal sharp kernel.


Okay, chaos that graduation, finally I arrived at an end. When I am writing this, I was the last 100 after a kind of test of the woman. 4 million words papers, successful submission, Similarly didn't pass, but those with movie crazy siding years was not in vain. They like image as deeply imbedded in my mind. In her boyfriend city, a safe work finally my acceptance, And parents strained looming relation also gradually to come down, and ultimately, soft mother let go say: "small Ann, as long as you think happiness then fly!"

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I finally understand why most people on graduation is laughing. Because, when we will ambition, anxiety, disappointing, sentimental, happiness, loneliness, fear through; -- When we escape all the baggage, lightly, When one door closes, another door opens - smile, which is the only one who can all inclusive of expression.


The leafy branches fruit, finally, almost done. This process complexity of the time, produce aromas, have already savoir far away...

2010年12月1日星期三

I use the "fool" to defend the love

My husband is a very silent man, but sometimes he will also YiYuJingRen intimidating serious smack-talking. Remember that we just got married and died three days later, he spoke about the road comings and goings flowing car dragon, containing nonchalantly said to me, "you see the family out, just look at who's driving, we know that this is who in the decision!" Later, we have several acquaintances around friends successively divorced, my husband say again: "you find no, this divorce of several, all is the husband side sit, the wife while driving!"

I think my husband clearly this is in QiaoShanZhenHu, even though I only managed to is half a woman entrepreneur, I still straight-tempered decided to pick up the tail personhood, lest the nights are long dream.

So what is called "pick up tail"? That is when our family when going out, although it is my car, although I am driving world first-class, but I am absolutely not rob the steering wheel, And in the way, when my husband lost his way, open car like headless flies like in the streets and lanes disorderly jumped disorderly flied, although my at heart miles-rock anger, wants to bring down the mouth to lambaste, although I knew this went east rather than go west, but I definitely will hold of its own tongue, stifle his anger, even the window also shake down, poked his head to him the same in all directions.

In a word, dumb!

Not only I half a woman entrepreneur to dumb, that even those who are the most intelligent, real woman entrepreneur would have to be. My good friend XiaoQing, initially a housewife do now three even zoar, and husband in ice cream shop XiaoQing throughout the developed process of, only from a secondary engineer ascended to the senior engineer, that is, from 45000 salary rises to WuWanKuai. But XiaoQing told me she grabbed her husband's heart the greatest top-secret weapon is: before him cry poor. "You also cry poor? He letter?" "Letter! Where there is not letter!" XiaoQing said, "every time I cry poor, are to be really cry! Tears way, money also came. The last time he elevated work, once I cry a lawsuit, he soon pay that 5,000 for me, very cool!"Christian Louboutin Pumps

I thought, whether you cool cool or you together, he felt cool, they that marriage must be "no war." western Sure enough, ten years, they look down, 100 couples faction damning evil speculating.

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Modern woman in dealing with man, need most is hypocritical, namely inside strong outside weak. "Inside strong" is psychological independence, career of enterprising, character of loyalty. A word, even if tomorrow without her husband, so have oneself a person eat! Good rice bowl So "weak" outside the meaning of man is aspersed to tears, have to have tears, Need to give men sandals of time, will go sandals; Need to please men hou badly, let in rhetoric.Christian Louboutin

Woman woman, the stronger the more you should have so a few action, make you of men from a distant view you, you are only "town mountain tiger", let he daren't absolutely commit outside, And from a closer look at you, you are only small mice ", "crossing how needed his protection, see his heart where run?

2010年11月29日星期一

Settle way

From start to finish, meantime distance is on the way.

Feel my life is always on the way. Like migratory birds, always from flying south to north, from north to south and fly, Just like spring, always from streams flow into the sea,

Like flowers and plants, always from spring length to summer, and from long summers arrive autumn.

Since leaving after starting point, life is always on the way. In time and space on the way. And wherever willing with unwillingly, always on increasingly close to a known or unknown destination.

There is a flower blossom xie, there are always there's sunrise sunset, begins when an end, it is very natural. Each specific life also fall victim to it.

But for some specific life itself seems to start is to arrive, seem to pay, so there will be the results of shaping process became a long wait, always on his way into life's greatest suffering and helplessness.

However arrived in really really so important? End really so beautiful? Wait may is a torment, but life is always on the way really only helpless?

Hydrosphere arrived in the sky may become a rainbow, pupa came to the end of life may become butterflies. But not all arrived at the end and has ultimate brilliant. Flowers end point was withered road end point was cornered, the end of living usually is death.

Even hydrosphere because of air arrived and become a rainbow, even to the end of life chrysalis because only became a butterfly, they also experienced a certain respectively the transformation and metamorphosis, only their respective into rainbow and change for butterfly pupa. Is the process done they eventually beauty.Christian Louboutin Boots

Process for any organism has vital irreplaceable role, we might even say, the process is life.

In a sense, life is indeed a process of complete reflect, or rather countless life detail of iniquity. And end but life is the boundary, mainly used for YuShi organism end, it may constitute the sublimation of life, but never is the purpose of our life.

But life, we tend to be in, and will spend the best wishes thinck ultimate. As if the nicest scenery only on the other shore, and shore is just a transition, is a section of the journey, we arrived in somewhere this scenery so often neglected, and are used to living always elsewhere.

Every most beautiful ultimate desire of course must be appreciated, but life is not only these, not only these. Alive, nor seek only moments of brilliance and complete certain mission, or to go to a certain place and cast a journey. If life is to die, like flowers bloom is to fade, such life only, the meaning of existence and how old?

Life is not a simple to death about, each a high quality of life, or a high quality of life, might wish all must first do settle way.Christian Louboutin Sandals

Because life is not always elsewhere, life also only in life on the way to justify life. Like migratory birds, and only kept from south to north, and fly from north to south, just flew constitute its lifetime migration, Like flowers and plants, is not must arrive which season just calculate realize value.

Life most scenery is always on the way. Life is mainly to experience. Like migratory birds, and constantly migration is to experience rains and winds, Just like spring, constantly flow is to experience intersection and ups and downs.Christian Louboutin Pumps

Though concrete experience that always appears, trivial, so ordinary, so long as off-putting, but is, just is they have formed a real life. It is one of life's most precious state, each settle way life will enjoy the life.

2010年11月19日星期五

Deep love, static thinking

If a flower floats, and I'll put flower for you, If there is a wind blows, and I'll leave you; the leaves If there are time and tide, I happiness for you.
Live alone in the sky, you are heaven that cloud, When you feel lonely night sky, staring at you is brightest the star, Walking with you, see the forest leaf is very beautiful, Tired when sleeping, you are the best that dream recently.
When good things always first sharing with you, Have the most strong wishes always does not forget take to you. If one day you received silent telephones, it is and I miss you, no words, silent, for the strings helpline bottom, lets you feel my existence.
Know that I miss you very much, have seen it's raining outside, it was all my tears of missing. If you also reminded me, please don't stand in the rain feelings of love, because then you "sneezing" will let me central sea create ripples.
The rain has stopped, the heavens also not blue, it is because bespread the colour of happiness; The wind is not static, that's because is passing my thoughts. Finally, cut section rain.just sunshine, with facial expressions of gaze fold ChengSiNian shape, then filled with love the fragrance, saxiang has your place, fragrant and your trip, happy your mood.Christian Louboutin
For your care in unconsciously center has become a habit. A gust of wind can call a season, a bud can hearten wasteland; A bit of your care can warm in the winter of my life, you touch of blessing can brilliant period in my life.Christian Louboutin Boots
I think you know what heartache, see you I understand what is happiness, and know you I understand what is the fate. If water represent peace, I send you the whole ocean: If stars represent happiness, I send you the whole galaxies, If thoughts, and I'll put honey representative himself into a little bee...
Know? You whether an episode in my life, or permanent friends, I will cherish. When years later, we tired or appearance fades, no longer have dreams, hope this melody is nourish our roots of life.
Because, you make me want to really good......

2010年11月1日星期一

Man behind the silence

More and more women, more can not understand, whether it is love stage, or during the first marriage for the man, his language was how well-developed cells: an hour ago to tell him to see you eloquent Acacia, an hour later I see you are still expressing love forever ... ... Christian Louboutin
under a leaf falling on your head, he would like the poems generally extremely rich with emotion; you an innocuous "good home" and laments that he quips with You talk about a few hours ... ... Christian louboutin Black
Now, this is how? Ah just a few years of marriage, he suddenly became a "boring pot." Some people say: men are action-type animals. So what man behind the silence mean? British sociologist Mark after an investigation found: men talk daily volume, a woman's half. However, men are mostly used for circle of friends, work, love to chat with the exchange may be less than 15 minutes per day, term of not more than 10%. In fact, men have a lot of silent way, each of which may be a heart-heart conversation started. Premise is that you know what they really want, and then take appropriate countermeasures. To use silence to protest against the chattering women like to build relationships by talking to consolidate relations in the home is like through the ramble to show their leadership, expressing concern for men. Men not think so, no matter how articulate he was before marriage, vomit Lotus, married men are more willing to speak directly to their specific wishes, such as "you want to go out to dinner tonight", "I want to rest," "I To meet the. " However, women can not stand, men more so, more women have something to say. Many times, because the woman's ramble, outside the hustle and bustle of home and the sky is no different. Man this time seems more rational than women tend to face a woman's ramble, and he does not directly refute - that is undoubtedly a bomb dropped in the home; he would not violently snapped - it is undoubtedly less effective in the crushed worm will turn. Many men used to choose silence, one is to use silence to express their feelings at the time, ideas and attitudes, on the other hand is a deliberate silence to maintain the distance between each other, women will also feel especially hurt. In this regard, women tend to say "they do not have feelings, is simply cold-blooded", which is actually a misunderstanding. Married men are more accustomed to hard to communicate their emotions and love. The more powerful women ramble, a man will leave you farther, though he remained silent, but the mind has put up a "protective wall." To use silence to the body and mind to accept a small boy to conquer the world, the sky, take responsibility like the "backbone" of education: when they become - people, no matter how helpless the face of fatigue, frustration how hard, how cruel blow What a heavy burden, how great pressure ... ...Christian Louboutin Sandals
they can not cry like a woman to vent, through the tears washed through talk distraction. Only thing they can do, only silence. Reflect in silence, in silence, conditioning, poised in silence, in silence, lick and suck the wound. Therefore, when a man trudged home, when he sat on the sofa without a word, when he turned a deaf ear to your words, you do not insufferably arrogant, much ado about nothing, imagination, and even imparting instruction. Maybe he just ended the conversation with the customer exhausted, or are facing life career Cengdeng, are greatly hurt the frustrations fatigue. At this time, he was silent in order to recuperate, he was reborn in silence. At this time you may wish to give him an hour, let him complete the work during the day and say "goodbye", after which he may have any questions you demonstrated a remarkable interest. Here to remind that when a man physically and mentally tired, if he still interested in watching TV, then do not watch the news on his network to switch off the TV, and concern, saying: "tired, to rest as soon as possible, but also to see what TV yet. "Notice, the cause of most types of men are more concerned about politics, you kind of" care care "can only be counterproductive. But you can show the gap in the amount of advertising insertion point of comfort. With silence to make plans you will often find that they are familiar with the man, talking and laughing, it suddenly silent; heat the clamor at home, he sat on the sofa daze; you warm to him a bunch of words thrown in the past, he actually unconscious. In fact this time, the appearance of silent daze just the men look, maybe he was going to mind what strange ideas, or thinking about some odd questions, or what triggered his inspiration. In his thinking into the silent state, it is a similar to the "closed-door practice" level. They do not want anyone to think he pulled out of the state, but do not want someone to interrupt or disturb him in silence, "practice." If at this time, you can not help but wonder impulse or interest dictates, he mentioned one way or another to the problem, for example, you're thinking, say staff I help you staff? Or do you have anything to say ah? You hear me questioning it? Tantamount to knocked. In men it seems, this time for all concerned, considerate, kind, curious and questioning, all the same, such as flies buzzing fly, disturbing quiet. At this time, you may wish to take when a silent followers it. The relaxed atmosphere you provide timely, not only will greatly shorten the time of his silence, and you'll make him grateful. Private collection with silence and sometimes, men prepared in case of emergency a lie, and sometimes it will try every means to hide something, like to drink a few beers the night before, had a Aventure business trip, just got an extra bonus and so on. Man's vision is, they do not say that women do not find that all will be very simple. And sometimes, silence is another man's hide. He may think that women are too special - the system, interferes with his freedom and rights, she even designed - made arrangements for his daily life. Therefore, in order to prevent a woman inquisitor asked in the end, to prevent her from his control and supervision of transparency, he chose silence. No clues in the search, he can quiet a lot of the world. In the couple's communication, if they have anything taboo issues, then the crisis on each other's feelings a little more possible. For example, when you repeatedly discussed with him the strength of recent sexual problems, feelings of apathy issues, loyalty issues, bonus issues, etc., his heart like a mirror, that walks with the powerful, but he does not know this say it kind of disgusted, and looked to the more not showing, so we use silence to take preventive measures. Men are always very careful and try to avoid exposing their weaknesses, especially in crisis situations, men extreme self-isolation. If a woman nagging at this time, men will be more angry. For the past love, sex and other sensitive topics, often in good faith and silent man, because men also need a sense of security and hope to obtain protection, the dream in the most perfect woman in front of their own show. Men need to camouflage the same time, the male psychological researchers pointed out: a man's world is full of competition, which requires distance, masks and calculation. The survival of man faced with the challenges a woman can not imagine the cruelty, loneliness is inevitable. The woman will feel a lot of men hidden in the secret heart must, therefore, continue to promote the mining depth of curiosity. But let a man open up in silence, first, give him a sense of security that you are at any time, will not use his weaknesses. You can use the kind of women to soothe his passion. You can quietly listen to his narrative, as an objective evaluation, and a solution with him. In fact, the man always has the potential arrogant tendencies, as long as he has enough of the audience, he will behave very charming, talkative, and full of interest. So, if you want to ease the atmosphere of each other's frozen, you can consider with him at a bar or tea house. Because of where he can find his public excited. Or to do something with the others, such as some people watching TV, shopping, and when he found the position of the threat of their own, he will certainly take the initiative to come to you break the impasse.

2010年10月25日星期一

7 strokes to solve your daily easy fall detox constipation

Constipation fall again to the peak season in the fall because the water reduces the amount of people will feel, and the motion amounted to a lot of people are reported to be less than the case of constipation, constipation is the harm to the body is quite large, when the weight loss will greatly reduce the effect of weight loss, here to tell you a few Xiaobian a good way to resolve constipation. autumn diet detoxification diet chart 1, it is important to help liver detoxification liver detoxification organs, a variety of toxins through the liver after a series of chemical reactions into non-toxic or low toxic substances. We in the diet can eat carrots, garlic, grapes, figs, etc. to help detoxify the liver. Carrot: is effective mercury emission food. Contains a large number of pectin combined with mercury, effectively reduce the blood concentration of mercury ions, accelerate the discharge. Daily ingestion of carrots, can also stimulate the gastrointestinal blood circulation, improve digestion, resistance to cause disease and aging free radicals. Garlic: Garlic in the special ingredients reduce the concentration of lead in the body. Grape: to help the liver, intestine, stomach rid of garbage, but also increase the hematopoietic function. Fig: with organic acids and enzymes, can nourish the liver and detoxification, heat intestines, aid digestion, especially for SO2, SO3, and other toxic substances must resist the role. 2, to help kidney detoxification kidney is an important detoxification organ, which filter the blood of toxins and waste produced by the decomposition of protein, and excreted through the urine. Cucumber, cherry and other fruits and vegetables helps to kidney detoxification. Cucumber: Cucumber's diuretic effect can clean the urethra, the urinary system helps to renal excretion of toxins. Containing cucurbitacin, cucumber acid also helps the lung, stomach, liver detoxification. Cherry: Cherry is a valuable natural food and medicine to help the kidneys detoxification. At the same time, it also has a mild laxative effect. 3, on the other food detox diet celery: Celery contains fiber can be as rich as purification devices, filter the body's waste. Regular consumption can stimulate the detoxification of the body to deal with the accumulation of toxins in the body caused by diseases such as rheumatism, arthritis and so on. In addition celery can also adjust the balance of the body of water, improve sleep. Bitter: bitter foods generally have a detoxification function. Study found that the bitter gourd, of which a protein can increase the activity of immune cells to clear the body of toxic substances. Women in particular, also benefit by eating the role of bitter melon. Mung: mung bean sweet and cool, has always been a very effective antidote for heavy metals, pesticides and a variety of food poisoning there is a certain preventive effect. It is mainly by accelerating the metabolism of toxic substances in the body, to cause the in vitro excretion. Tea: tea polyphenols, polysaccharides and vitamin C have to speed up the excretion of toxic substances in the role of the body. Especially the tea, the study found tea helps kill cancer cells. Often insist on drinking sitting at a computer can jump on the computer to prevent adverse effects of radiation on the human body. Diet ssnn.net milk and soy products: rich in calcium contained useful "toxins moving work." 4, the water on the intestine, especially in the large intestine was Excretion place good. Water can promote the metabolism, reduce the waste of time to stay in the intestine, reducing the absorption of toxins, dissolved water-soluble toxins. 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2010年10月20日星期三

Detox 8 golden rules

Detoxification is the process in the diet of a premise that must be prepared to work in the weight-loss when detoxification, remove toxins in the body only to let the body with some of the highest value, when the weight-loss diet weight loss how to maximize their own , this is determined by the work of detoxification, the following look at when we need to lose weight how to do it. 1, more than routine maintenance as we choose with antioxidant antioxidants skin care products (such as: vitamin c, or grape seed, etc.) or intake of fruits and vegetables, can actively block free radical damage, improve the skin's immune system and reduce the toxins accumulation. 2, more long-term accumulation of toxins in vivo bowel, people get bad breath or constipation problems, so we have to eat more vegetables and green leafy vegetables rod parts, fruits, high fiber foods and beans, red rice, whole wheat bread and other coarse food to promote gastrointestinal motility. 3, more breathing deep breathing can be transported to the body of nutrients,Christian Louboutin Pumps discharge of unnecessary waste, it is recommended to do five minutes a day for at least take a deep breath, take a deep breath before going to bed or take advantage of, but also Zhumian Oh. 4, drink plenty of water to detoxify the liver and kidney are organs of the body, drink plenty of water can promote the metabolism of liver and kidney. The morning after getting up and immediately added the first cup of warm water with lemon or honey to help the liver detoxify, drink at least 2000ml water 5 feet, more sweat bath, is the use of heat to shrink pores, skin a lot of perspiration, is absolutely good detoxification method. If you think more pronounced effect, add bath salts to the water, you can enhance removal of harmful substances, eliminate waste. In addition, the weekly exercise can speed up the lymphatic circulation and help detoxification. www.ssnn.net Diet 6, and more to keep pores clean and smooth,Christian louboutin Black we can help the skin to breathe smoothly detoxification. Skin detoxification and maintenance, clean and clear most important categories, such as use of exfoliating or deep cleansing mask and other products, the skin surface of the dirt away, we can keep pores open. 7, less pressure too much pressure, will produce free radicals, so the metabolism slows down, indirectly accumulated toxins. 8, the less exposure the body will produce a lot of exposure to free radicals, so that the body and reduces the skin's resistance to toxin accumulation.