2010年12月15日星期三
Between men and women is important to enjoy each other
2010年12月8日星期三
Instant warm
Instant warm a summary, let mother family silent for a long time, even sister oneself also therefore feel ashamed, seemed to once marry brother-in-law, will follow into social bottom, turn hang forever. The very long period of time, the family no longer discuss the marriage. Later, brother-in-law bought big pack of things, riding a motorcycle rushes to our house. In order to etiquette, parents force him to stay at home for dinner. I thought he would impassioned delivers a speech, but until dinner ate a half, he didn't pull to a positive to go up. Finally, the family looked at each other, know how close this meal, at this moment, the brother-in-law will whole cup of wine, drink, blushing said: dad, niang, I guarantee, no matter how much of this life I eat bitterness, will not let little by little pond grievance.
Is this word, and let my sister has made up his mind, marry brother-in-law. And parents also sighed, ShanShen put a line.
Sister married soon had a baby. That year, brother-in-law didn't go out to work, single-minded keep in the home, the ground when they're not looking for some scattered work. Wait for the child grow to more than a year, can save more energy, brother-in-law has followed outside the labor contractor to the provincial capital to dry construction. Although with the town, I and brother-in-law had never met. I tried to ask his own JianZhuDui, but they are like grass and live by the nomads of the region, where a medium-bodied grasses, where is the place, until a habitat of building ground, air city poured in, and they these sweat bleeding man, by the boss with some money sent away.
I read my book, earth for after graduation can stay in this city and trying, let oneself to lower the ideal dian height. Such efforts, and finally let me at two years successful remained in the city, become a celebrity envied the newspaper reporters.
Listen to my sister said, brother-in-law know I'm a reporter, excitement, night didn't sleep well, on the day after, I find newspaper, I want heel side. It's a pity that he only know my childhood name, I graduated school he can recall, finally guard when he is a liar, take it away. Don't know brother-in-law have complained from what, but he didn't get me, nor in front mention my workmates this can for their particularly aggrieed reporter.
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I am busy let his life a bit better, too busy to pay attention to brother-in-law life. Even once, their site from our newspaper several hundred meters far place, but I could not go to see him once. Just accidental opportunity from the mother and disclosed that there, his feet were from the cement bag bashed, won't be in hospital dermatological department, countryman connect home to rest. And because dragged not only at home to treatment, the simple bandage changeover, nearly infection...
Listening to these time, I felt like listening to other people's story, in the newspapers, often have something about migrant accident, I used to it. But he also brother-in-law, when it's fate gave his all, have long been accustomed to it, because, when I phoned his condolences, he just hanhou smile and said, nothing to do this, stuttering is often the case. Many times, he really will these as the life of normal. We met occasionally, he spoke up foremen unreasonable salary of embezzle part, workmates a high fever climb scaffold, supermarket was waiter thief similar staring at... All these, he as talking as GuChangLiDuan couse, tone.
This year, the elder sister's daughter is 4 years old, haven't seen tall buildings. I brought her to the city, pointing to a nearby play is being built in building tell her, this is tall buildings. Little guys suddenly stopped and looked at it, upward comings and goings workers, ask a way: "younger sister, that top have father?"
I raised my head, watching on scaffolding under the scorching sun windward migrant workers, they are working for a ground of building nervous working, but they from beginning to end have no time like building on the advertising banners, have "propagate language reigns as the heroic". Even, they even look down at the ground pedestrians have time.
When niece and shake my arm, ask, dad on it? I held her up, say: "rain how can anyone know dad will work on?" She listened, immediateness happy, clapping way: "mom said dad is lid building hero? Young aunt, I can shout also 1 dad?" I YiZheng, then kissed her little cheeks, gentle voice said: "sure, even though you can't see dad, but dad can hear xiao yu call......"
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This autumn afternoon, I hugged xiaoyu, standing in one place machine plangent building before, listen to her again and again head shout "father". It seems that I see, high on scaffolding, those busy man rolled over on his side, gazing at us... That picture frame, like in a flash movie a warm lens, carved into my memory. Christian Louboutin Boots
2010年12月7日星期二
Thanks to the challenge of life
2010年12月6日星期一
BingHuangMaLuan graduation mood
Until my departure to Beijing to take an examination, I just use a friend of message, trying to convince himself. She said that, this time for important is not the result, but you can finally for their reading career drew a satisfactory full stop. From kindergarten to doctor, every war you all had, in the undergraduate course graduate than me, track regard it as a perfect circle. I leaned on window, listen to the train KuangDang KuangDang land sped onward, and finally, on this sentence smiled.
I know this laugh in mixed the bitterness. When I alone carried a baggage, spent ten minutes before from across a bridge sections on the broad road; not When I was in north gate guard vigilance ground by shadow; truly when interrogating When I from north shadow those well-dressed handsome boys and pretty girls to go to pass a rented the basement; When I think I learned very good major, in a couple of examination papers before, I still crumbled, can't withstand the gloomy and lost heart deposition in Beijing, some strange street, slowly ducks turned, ren tears overflow.
I met online a friend, who have never striven again hair message, let me into Beijing must remember to see her. She wants from my body, a little corroborated text that live nonchalance freely me. For this meeting, I have racked thought, but when I exam is over the last game, open the cellular phone, but I only give sent her word. I said, goodbye, my friend. She never know, that moment, the skin coarse, hair tumbled I is how wretched. The text free and easy unruly I am rather then shall never see, also do not have such an unkempt appearance meet, and besides, I imagined that this is not her weak downy woman, only is a graduation, then let this implicit in text behind indifferent woman reveal sharp kernel.
Okay, chaos that graduation, finally I arrived at an end. When I am writing this, I was the last 100 after a kind of test of the woman. 4 million words papers, successful submission, Similarly didn't pass, but those with movie crazy siding years was not in vain. They like image as deeply imbedded in my mind. In her boyfriend city, a safe work finally my acceptance, And parents strained looming relation also gradually to come down, and ultimately, soft mother let go say: "small Ann, as long as you think happiness then fly!"
I finally understand why most people on graduation is laughing. Because, when we will ambition, anxiety, disappointing, sentimental, happiness, loneliness, fear through; -- When we escape all the baggage, lightly, When one door closes, another door opens - smile, which is the only one who can all inclusive of expression.
The leafy branches fruit, finally, almost done. This process complexity of the time, produce aromas, have already savoir far away...
2010年12月1日星期三
I use the "fool" to defend the love
2010年11月29日星期一
Settle way
2010年11月19日星期五
Deep love, static thinking
Live alone in the sky, you are heaven that cloud, When you feel lonely night sky, staring at you is brightest the star, Walking with you, see the forest leaf is very beautiful, Tired when sleeping, you are the best that dream recently.
When good things always first sharing with you, Have the most strong wishes always does not forget take to you. If one day you received silent telephones, it is and I miss you, no words, silent, for the strings helpline bottom, lets you feel my existence.
Know that I miss you very much, have seen it's raining outside, it was all my tears of missing. If you also reminded me, please don't stand in the rain feelings of love, because then you "sneezing" will let me central sea create ripples.
The rain has stopped, the heavens also not blue, it is because bespread the colour of happiness; The wind is not static, that's because is passing my thoughts. Finally, cut section rain.just sunshine, with facial expressions of gaze fold ChengSiNian shape, then filled with love the fragrance, saxiang has your place, fragrant and your trip, happy your mood.Christian Louboutin
For your care in unconsciously center has become a habit. A gust of wind can call a season, a bud can hearten wasteland; A bit of your care can warm in the winter of my life, you touch of blessing can brilliant period in my life.Christian Louboutin Boots
I think you know what heartache, see you I understand what is happiness, and know you I understand what is the fate. If water represent peace, I send you the whole ocean: If stars represent happiness, I send you the whole galaxies, If thoughts, and I'll put honey representative himself into a little bee...
Know? You whether an episode in my life, or permanent friends, I will cherish. When years later, we tired or appearance fades, no longer have dreams, hope this melody is nourish our roots of life.
Because, you make me want to really good......
2010年11月1日星期一
Man behind the silence
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Now, this is how? Ah just a few years of marriage, he suddenly became a "boring pot." Some people say: men are action-type animals. So what man behind the silence mean? British sociologist Mark after an investigation found: men talk daily volume, a woman's half. However, men are mostly used for circle of friends, work, love to chat with the exchange may be less than 15 minutes per day, term of not more than 10%. In fact, men have a lot of silent way, each of which may be a heart-heart conversation started. Premise is that you know what they really want, and then take appropriate countermeasures. To use silence to protest against the chattering women like to build relationships by talking to consolidate relations in the home is like through the ramble to show their leadership, expressing concern for men. Men not think so, no matter how articulate he was before marriage, vomit Lotus, married men are more willing to speak directly to their specific wishes, such as "you want to go out to dinner tonight", "I want to rest," "I To meet the. " However, women can not stand, men more so, more women have something to say. Many times, because the woman's ramble, outside the hustle and bustle of home and the sky is no different. Man this time seems more rational than women tend to face a woman's ramble, and he does not directly refute - that is undoubtedly a bomb dropped in the home; he would not violently snapped - it is undoubtedly less effective in the crushed worm will turn. Many men used to choose silence, one is to use silence to express their feelings at the time, ideas and attitudes, on the other hand is a deliberate silence to maintain the distance between each other, women will also feel especially hurt. In this regard, women tend to say "they do not have feelings, is simply cold-blooded", which is actually a misunderstanding. Married men are more accustomed to hard to communicate their emotions and love. The more powerful women ramble, a man will leave you farther, though he remained silent, but the mind has put up a "protective wall." To use silence to the body and mind to accept a small boy to conquer the world, the sky, take responsibility like the "backbone" of education: when they become - people, no matter how helpless the face of fatigue, frustration how hard, how cruel blow What a heavy burden, how great pressure ... ...Christian Louboutin Sandals
they can not cry like a woman to vent, through the tears washed through talk distraction. Only thing they can do, only silence. Reflect in silence, in silence, conditioning, poised in silence, in silence, lick and suck the wound. Therefore, when a man trudged home, when he sat on the sofa without a word, when he turned a deaf ear to your words, you do not insufferably arrogant, much ado about nothing, imagination, and even imparting instruction. Maybe he just ended the conversation with the customer exhausted, or are facing life career Cengdeng, are greatly hurt the frustrations fatigue. At this time, he was silent in order to recuperate, he was reborn in silence. At this time you may wish to give him an hour, let him complete the work during the day and say "goodbye", after which he may have any questions you demonstrated a remarkable interest. Here to remind that when a man physically and mentally tired, if he still interested in watching TV, then do not watch the news on his network to switch off the TV, and concern, saying: "tired, to rest as soon as possible, but also to see what TV yet. "Notice, the cause of most types of men are more concerned about politics, you kind of" care care "can only be counterproductive. But you can show the gap in the amount of advertising insertion point of comfort. With silence to make plans you will often find that they are familiar with the man, talking and laughing, it suddenly silent; heat the clamor at home, he sat on the sofa daze; you warm to him a bunch of words thrown in the past, he actually unconscious. In fact this time, the appearance of silent daze just the men look, maybe he was going to mind what strange ideas, or thinking about some odd questions, or what triggered his inspiration. In his thinking into the silent state, it is a similar to the "closed-door practice" level. They do not want anyone to think he pulled out of the state, but do not want someone to interrupt or disturb him in silence, "practice." If at this time, you can not help but wonder impulse or interest dictates, he mentioned one way or another to the problem, for example, you're thinking, say staff I help you staff? Or do you have anything to say ah? You hear me questioning it? Tantamount to knocked. In men it seems, this time for all concerned, considerate, kind, curious and questioning, all the same, such as flies buzzing fly, disturbing quiet. At this time, you may wish to take when a silent followers it. The relaxed atmosphere you provide timely, not only will greatly shorten the time of his silence, and you'll make him grateful. Private collection with silence and sometimes, men prepared in case of emergency a lie, and sometimes it will try every means to hide something, like to drink a few beers the night before, had a Aventure business trip, just got an extra bonus and so on. Man's vision is, they do not say that women do not find that all will be very simple. And sometimes, silence is another man's hide. He may think that women are too special - the system, interferes with his freedom and rights, she even designed - made arrangements for his daily life. Therefore, in order to prevent a woman inquisitor asked in the end, to prevent her from his control and supervision of transparency, he chose silence. No clues in the search, he can quiet a lot of the world. In the couple's communication, if they have anything taboo issues, then the crisis on each other's feelings a little more possible. For example, when you repeatedly discussed with him the strength of recent sexual problems, feelings of apathy issues, loyalty issues, bonus issues, etc., his heart like a mirror, that walks with the powerful, but he does not know this say it kind of disgusted, and looked to the more not showing, so we use silence to take preventive measures. Men are always very careful and try to avoid exposing their weaknesses, especially in crisis situations, men extreme self-isolation. If a woman nagging at this time, men will be more angry. For the past love, sex and other sensitive topics, often in good faith and silent man, because men also need a sense of security and hope to obtain protection, the dream in the most perfect woman in front of their own show. Men need to camouflage the same time, the male psychological researchers pointed out: a man's world is full of competition, which requires distance, masks and calculation. The survival of man faced with the challenges a woman can not imagine the cruelty, loneliness is inevitable. The woman will feel a lot of men hidden in the secret heart must, therefore, continue to promote the mining depth of curiosity. But let a man open up in silence, first, give him a sense of security that you are at any time, will not use his weaknesses. You can use the kind of women to soothe his passion. You can quietly listen to his narrative, as an objective evaluation, and a solution with him. In fact, the man always has the potential arrogant tendencies, as long as he has enough of the audience, he will behave very charming, talkative, and full of interest. So, if you want to ease the atmosphere of each other's frozen, you can consider with him at a bar or tea house. Because of where he can find his public excited. Or to do something with the others, such as some people watching TV, shopping, and when he found the position of the threat of their own, he will certainly take the initiative to come to you break the impasse.