2010年12月22日星期三

Angry don't made any decision

A man and his wife born child died during childbirth. Fortunately, his family had the sharp-witted dog, naturally shouldering baby-sitting burden. One day, men have gone out, very late. The dog knows his master came back, cheerful came out to meet. But man saw a dog's mouth was full of blood, a sinister foreboding immediately into my mind, thinking whether this dog with hunger, animal the child to eat attacks. So he hurriedly rushed to the bedside a see, nobody, see only a heap of blood. A man in a rage, picked up a stick will this dog alive and killed it. And behold at this time, children cried and crawled out from under the bed, men knew that himself wronged dog, laboriously view, found a Wolf, not lying already beaten to bite dead and look at the dog, the hind legs have been seriously scratches. Originally in men going out, there is a Wolf slipped in trying to steal eating children, the dog brave rushed and Wolf big fight, finally saved the child's life. Men know the truth, the wailed and lament, but everything has been unable to change to return.

Why this happens tragedy? That's because he was intense anger blunt dyke reason that ignoring fundamental judgments and verify the steps. In fact this is also a man over-generalization. According to psychologist calculate, people in anger, intelligence is the lowest. In anger situation, people will make a very stupid decision and self-righteousness, also can make very dangerous move and righteously. This time, the decision to be made more than 90% are extremely mistake.

In fact, many people have been "a moment's anger" and reap the rewards of life. Far as qu yuan, flay threw himself; Nearly as ma3 jia jue2, flay even killed four people. This is extreme example. As for flay lexically officer in tao yuanming, flay quit, but also the generality of numerous board lift. So, have so a word of advice -- in angry don't made any decision.

Almost all the prison inmates are expressed regret, Nearly all of the cases are acted angry time made an irrational decision and happen, Almost all criminals when interviewed said: "if then......". In fact, most people nature good, so-called "at the beginning of life, goodness" really nasty to kill people to set fire to pleasure are few and far between. In this sense, the angry when whether have reason to fundamentally affect the person's life.

Man is perceptual animals, life in love the futhure intertexture, but the life and are constantly choices, some choices might not always, some choices but concerning the overall situation; Some mistakes can try to compensate, some are no turning back. Anger and make the wrong decision, each person happened. If you have not been harmed by the wrong decision, that should feel rejoice, but luckily not must always lamas. So if you want to control of your own life to deviate from orbit, please remember the words of advice -- is angry of the time don't made any decision!

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