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College entrance examination this year just was announced July 7 early in the morning, I received a text message: "My daughter Tao Yuqing, has been Hong Kong Baptist University, and should play a role in the writing talent. Old Tao abandons." Old Tao abandons also a reporter, about 3 years ago, to his daughter to study things, he consulted to find a lot of friends. Breath, Old Tao abandons his wife had just died, his daughter hitting puberty, and fond of writing, like to see extracurricular books, often do not hand in papers, the teacher too busy. Finally, the school forced the beleaguered Old Tao abandons, or take my daughter to see a psychiatrist, or leave of absence to go home. Receive the message, I returned to the one, congratulate them on their father and daughter in the fierce battle to win entrance. Old Tao abandons quickly replied: "can not win, right? Only to struggle in the education system only, a grade of only 560, can only be considered in dealing with aspects of passing the college entrance examination. I think there is a question worth exploring: the child's talent, in the end the number of development should maintain the value of parents how to deal with this problem and institutional contradictions. "Yes, ah, now I do not know how many children and parents, trapped by this problem, stumped. "One school, on the end, she never been happier," "I'm not good, do not write me!" 19-year-old pottery Yuqing, a loud yell. I look shocked, and so refused to be interviewed in person, really have not seen. "How could you not good?" I asked carefully. Her a call to choke me again: "I am not a good newspaper publicity, I did not save who did not donate any money, why interview me?" Tao Yuqing is a single fold of the girl, who long quite thin , thin arms, head curtain some length, a bow, to cover the upper eyelid. Old Tao abandons persuade softly: "You're a good man. But not just a good student teacher in mind." Tao Yuqing in an interview room, the room has twin beds, a large desk and bookcase long. Stacked on the table, "Henry David Thoreau set", "Schweitzer Biography" and other books, the bookcase is not a book about the college entrance examination, most of the natural and biological aspects, such as "man and worms," "Life Sciences", " Walden, "" Insect "," New York Times science "," feel the natural history "and so on. Sitting at the desk for a moment, to hold the book Tao Yuqing, ran to the living room sofa, and put down Old Tao abandons me. Conversation, Old Tao abandons time to time to call on a voice: "Tao Yuqing, which I can say that?" "You say!" On the sofa reading the Tao Yuqing, reluctantly back soon, Old Tao abandons this only then goes on to talk. Speaking of the biggest features of Tao Yuqing, Old Tao abandons that is curiosity weight, a little flair for languages. "A child to love reading, always hold the book with an adult behind, exclaiming to her read, read, read. Recognize Braille, the look on their own. Every night she had to read the story, do not read do not sleep I was not sleepy, open eyes, she came to picking my eyes. "Still later, Old Tao abandons do not know how she knew so many words. One day, she held out the "Journey to the West" (simple version) on the kindergarten. Aunt was surprised to see: You can also read this? Okay, read out. In kindergarten, other children singing and dancing performances, she shows how to read. "Since childhood, she loved animals, go to the grandmother in rural areas, what insects dare to grasp, even afraid of snakes. The village to sell chickens each, she pestering adults to buy them. Result, a total of 59 come back again." Tao Yuqing also raised a big meat bugs, watch cartoons, just show the insects resting on the sofa, watching the two together. "She read a few books in biology, a lot of knowledge in this area, I learned with her." Old Tao abandons her daughter to see "Little Tadpole Looking for Mom", Tao Yuqing say science, made a mistake, find a mother wrong. "Frog's egg is a round, the toad is a section of the egg." One day, her daughter told her father surprise, she saw the ants grow wings and fly out from the hole, called "nuptial flight" , only one day a year, all the male ants and the ants alternate out the mating female Wangdu Fei. "One school, on the end, she never been happier." Old Tao abandons say. Curious, is the child's nature. Many children have their own talent or expertise, but most are parents and schools to kill, give Put out small buds have not grown up. However, some children relatively stubborn, stubborn to grow, Old Tao abandons his daughter said, belongs to this, not tame. To a primary school, Tao Yuqing, became "problem youth." "And the other children can not play a piece, are an alternative. Up temper, not afraid of anything. I, from her primary school began to constantly called to the school. A teacher to call, the heart 'Dodo suddenly' in jump, anyway, nothing good. "Once, the principal called the Old Tao abandons to go. That morning, the radio is gymnastics school, said Tao Yuqing went to the front of the counter, the lead teacher to push down operation, and this terrible? Principal Q: Why do you do? Unexpectedly, the little girl is the kind of answer: morning winter cold, you will not let us wear a jacket, but the teacher why was it wearing a down jacket collar operation in top? The most troublesome to the teacher, homework is not Tao Yuqing, not lectures. On one occasion, the teacher is not angry, also known as Old Tao abandons: you come in out of the window to see her! "I stood outside the window, indeed, other students in lectures, and she secretly read the following extracurricular books." Old Tao abandons analyzed, the main contradiction is a matter of time. Do not expect students to Han dry, single-minded study, Ben was Ben in the entrance exam. About 12 hours one day, all classes, homework, no time to do the things you like. "Tao Yuqing like creatures, like writing, she spent too much time in this top. The other kids back a bag, she is equal to back both. Other children after school, and play to play, and she took extra time with a view books, writing, and the Internet. lots of books, bought all of her own, a few bookcases. my light "Insect" to buy several versions of a set of 15, she looked at. Her volume of reading than I large. "" It should be said, the teacher did nothing wrong, is provided by the school to do. "Old Tao abandons always think so. Tao Yuqing know a little talent, and some teachers even take care of her. "In elementary school, and later, the principal is also very reluctantly said: Tao Yuqing the child, as long as she does not affect others, not control her!" Schools an ultimatum: either take a child to do psychological counseling, or leave of absence leave! On the junior high school, naughty even more powerful, more conflicts with teachers, her daughter, with family close to campus, Old Tao abandons the number called to the school more. Mainly operational issues, there is a fight a few times. "Teachers have academic pressure, there is no way to control the students strengths and just keep your lack of discipline." Old Tao abandons said. Like a junior high school, every day, several indicators: no homework delivery, hear their lessons, not later than the late, say no class to speak, Da Buda frame, etc., filled every day by the class leader, Tao Yuqing are often filled in for Zhu Er. "I'm afraid to open parents." Old Tao abandons every bite the bullet and go against my teachers often feel. Parents are back open end of the period, the teacher of Statistics said, with a course, except whole class of people other than the Tao Yuqing combined total of 8 jobs pay less, pay less Tao Yuqing 28 a person. So with the Old Tao abandons teacher, said: "The child is now your home, if for the others, has long been dismissed." "Hey, in fact, not much to do with the school, the principal contradiction in the teacher, or she could not her favorite things to do, people to irritability, anger, act. But conversely, if I had not a son stubborn effort, she wrote something, but also insisted on not down. "" The more close to the exam, the more upset people, the pressure also great, kids are hot hot temper, the attendant in the students there are contradictions at every turn, dry shelf. "listening to her dad talk about fights, Tao Yuqing rushed into the house from the living room, sat down on a chair and said loudly:" No! that he threw a chair at me, but the teacher made me apologize to him, so how ah? "fight with her boy, tall and big, saying that no one dare to offend the whole class. Having fights, Tao Yuqing and said angrily: "Our school is also divided into many classes and poor classes, the teachers have graduated learning experience of students back to talk about, please give a good class, are admitted to Peking University, Tsinghua people and give us find, are like on the language school. This is the man graded, so how can it! "" She always mention this, I feel unfair. "Old Tao abandons sit and talk. "Let the education system is not fair, we pay the tuition fees are the same, but the school the best teachers, best resources are used in a good student body." Do not like the school mentioned in most places, a ceramic Yuqing tone said: just look at scores, do not respect people, no respect for human desire, lack of respect for human personality. Let all the people of the same, with the stringent standards you stuck in a little box, and said this for you. "Internet cafes in the school, the teacher scolded the post Trinidad and Tobago, go look, you know what the students in mind. With the school to teach the set and did not matter." Old Tao abandons the observation: School ideological education is to enable children hypocrisy of the process, a lot of high moral standards, simply can not do. Others in the education of educators pretend, pretend to be listening to educators, we were feeling. With performance in mind out completely different. The Tao Yuqing it, did not belong to completion of the process of hypocrisy, less successful, so she was being blocked from competing with children. "Her pain is, do not want to face a set, behind a set, thinking about what to show. Maybe some students would like better than she serious, but others do not show it, the surface behaved." "Others are to obey, you will follow the crowd chanting? "I asked Tao Yuqing. "But I feel uncomfortable." Privately, they also hate the hypocrisy of the students who hate serious, dude. "Guess how we say: Mo loading force, loading force be struck by lightning!" Voice hardly ever, I Old Tao abandons all laughed. "This, though not pleasant, but brilliant! Values in my form, I think many schools taught me what is wrong, I can not accept, but I do not know what is right. Sometimes, I also cater to school set of teaching, sometimes criticize it. people annoying, very paranoid. "paused children, Tao Yuqing added, deadpan:" I do not like the old me. "teacher had to Old Tao abandons guarantee This must be the child did, or do not come to school. "I can assure myself how, can not guarantee that others, although she is my daughter, someone else can also ah." Until now, the Old Tao abandons feel: the teacher's words to hear, but they can not all listen.Christian Louboutin Because teachers treat all students the same, and parents know their child is valid and personality. "Tao Yuqing such as children, desperate, get break up, how to do trouble? I do not want to take the risk. To force children to honestly listen to, test a high score, the results get distorted into a child's psychological and spiritual unhealthy and does not pay. "toss the most powerful, the school called in the Old Tao abandons, an ultimatum: either take a child to do psychological counseling, or leave of absence leave! Forced resignation, Old Tao abandons had led Thao, looking around for counseling. Yeliang run a lot of places, the child can say nothing wrong, normal. Once, they went to a Beijing hospital, he found a well-known psychologist, a Look disease. Busy for a long time, experts say old child all right. "I said, the school said the sick, they said, and if the doctor said not ill, give to open a certificate. The old one on fire experts: this sick not sick is that I have the final say, or they said Operator? sick I drive proved to be disease-proof I open kip? This is my phone, ask them to call me directly! "" Who is crazy in the end? Christian Louboutin Pumps "In those days, Old Tao abandons are suffering heart, small Tao to the extreme bad mood, she read a lot of Li He's poetry. Tang Li is a man in, because they can not participate in the imperial examinations, he also broke his career, an official at the most to do Nine. Bleak future, the sick pay hardship Li live to 27 years old, was later known as "ghost poem." Tao Yuqing Li He said a lot of poetry, written in sad case, enough scary. "Nanshan repeat itself sad, empty ghost sprinkled grass", "When I was not proud of twenty, as one such dry worry Lan Xie. Quail flying horse clothing such as dogs, raw copper roar Fencing Pro discrimination." Li commented that she : text is madness, it is the atmosphere to the terror, even a